Do you have a broken picker? You keep dating people who are not right for you, but you’re not sure why? Watch this video now!

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One of the most common reasons people hire me is to help them fix their broken picker. They have a pattern of choosing the wrong partners again and again. One of the important decisions in life is picking the right partner, which leads to a healthy relationship. Good partnership leads to better mental and physical health. Yet, about 50% of marriages end in divorce, and we get our hearts broken again and again. Why? Broken picker syndrome! Let’s talk about why our pickers are broken and how we can fix them!

5 Reasons Why You Have a Broken Picker (and how to fix it)

1. Lack of self-awareness: We may not fully understand our own needs and values, leading us to choose partners who are not truly compatible.

2. Unresolved emotional issues: Past traumas or unresolved issues from our upbringing can influence our relationship choices, causing us to seek out partners who may not be the best fit.

3. Societal expectations: Societal pressures, such as cultural norms or family expectations, can influence our partner selection, leading us to prioritize external factors over personal compatibility.

4. Poor communication skills: Ineffective communication can result in misunderstandings and misinterpretations, making it more likely to choose partners who are not right for us.

5. Fear of being alone: The fear of being alone or societal pressure to be in a relationship can result in settling for partners who may not be the best match rather than waiting for a more suitable partner.

If your picker is broken and you want to improve your dating and relationship success, join me for a brand new two-hour broken picker workshop on Sunday, June 30, 2024. There are only a few spots left. Learn more and join here.

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