If you’re looking to add a little extra oomph to your sex life, exploring the elusive G-spot may be just what you need. While there’s some debate about whether the G-spot exists, a lot of the vulva owners we asked experienced the pleasure of stimulating this area its existence. One of them is our female adult toy expert and sexual health advocate Sandra Larson. Today, she’ll share the knowledge not only on how to find this spot but also on how to have a G-spot orgasm with a vibrator. With no further ado, let’s check the steps she prepared one by one!
- Before you go exploring, you should know what this mysterious “G-spot” is all about and how to track it down. Well, in layman’s terms, it’s like a pleasure zone inside the vagina that gets people pretty excited when they touch it. Some sort of a happy button if you will.
- You’ll find it up there on the front vaginal wall, about two to three inches from the vaginal opening. Some folks can find it using their fingers, but using a vibrator specifically designed to hit that spot can really simplify the whole experience and crank the pleasure up a notch.
- When you’re on the hunt for a vibrator to tickle that G-spot, look for one that’s tailor-made for the job. These little guys often come with a curved or angled tip that’s like a G-spot magnet. Once you get the right tools, set it on a vibration setting of your liking and try doing a “come here” motion while simultaneously rubbing the upper part of your vaginal wall. Like all great things, give it time. And voila- orgasm galore via g-spot stimulation!
What Is the G-Spot?
The G-spot is like a tiny, bean-shaped area about two inches inside the upper vaginal wall. This little hotspot is part of the whole clitoral network, loaded with nerve endings and often said to have a bit of a bumpy, spongy, or textured feel compared to surrounding tissues. Now, there’s some debate among sexual medicine experts about whether the G-spot exists, but plenty of vulva owners (such as myself) swear by the intense pleasure they get when their erogenous zone is given a little attention.
What Is A G-Spot Orgasm?
When you give that tiny G-spot of yours some love, you’re bound to experience a G-spot orgasm, which is a whole different ball game from your regular clitoral or vaginal orgasms. To give you a comparison, G-spot orgasms are like the female version of P-spot orgasms, which, by the way, can only be unlocked during some adventurous anal sex. That’s why some guys go for a strap-on to get a taste of P-spot orgasms!
Pro tip: If you want to share the fun with your male partner and give them a P-spot orgasm, here are our top picks for the best strap-on for pegging.
These types of orgasm happen when the urethral sponge, which is a bundle of nerve endings located inside the vagina, is stimulated. Generally speaking, these orgasms are achieved through sexual activity that involves inserting two fingers or a specifically designed G-spot vibrator into the vagina and using a “come hither” motion to stimulate the area.
Not everyone can have this type of orgasm, and nor feel pleasurable when stimulating it, and that is A-Okay. However, for those who can reach orgasm through the G-spot, it can be an incredibly intense and satisfying experience. The women we interviewed reported that it feels like a deep, internal release of pleasure that radiates throughout the body. Some even describe it as a “full body” female ejaculation. Wow!
How to Find The G-Spot?
1. Using Your Fingers
It’s always a good idea to start with your fingers before moving on to using a vibrator. Why? Because they are generally easier to maneuver. To find your G-spot, insert your fingers into your vagina about two inches inside and curl them upwards towards your belly button. You should feel a slightly rougher patch of tissue on the upper wall of your vagina. X marks the spot!
Once you’ve found this erogenous zone in the front wall of your vagina, you can begin to experiment with different techniques to stimulate it. Some people find that a “come here” motion with their fingers works wonders, while others prefer a circular or tapping motion. It’s important to communicate with your partner if you’re trying this during partner play and let them know what feels good and what doesn’t.
Another benefit of fingers is it allows you to have more control over the pressure and speed of the stimulation. Once you get the hang of it, you can move on to using a vibrator.
Note: Remember to always use plenty of lubrication when exploring your G-spot with your fingers as this will make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable. And please clean your hands and trim them nails thoroughly to avoid any risk of infection.
Once you have a grasp on how to find your G-spot using your finger, it will make the process of finding it using a vibrator so much easier (trust me, I know). So let’s move on to the vibrator section, shall we?
2. Using Vibrators
Start by getting comfortable and relaxed. It also helps to get aroused so your natural juices start to flow. Watching porn or thinking about your favorite sexual fantasy usually does the trick.
Next, apply plenty of water-based lubricant to help the vibrator glide smoothly. Insert the vibrator slowly, pointing the curved tip towards your belly button. Take a deep breath and gently insert the full toy into your private part. Try to hit the same area that you found with your fingers, and voila, the sensations should make you holler with joy! Now you’re ready for a G-spot orgasm!
Some women find it easier to reach theirs when lying on their back with their legs bent, while others prefer to be on their hands and knees. Remember, every body is different, so what works for one person may not work for another. Be patient and take your time to explore your body and find what feels best for you.
How to Have a G-Spot Orgasm with Vibrator?
Here’s how to use a vibrator for G-spot stimulation and experience pleasurable sensations.
- Choose the right vibrator: Not all sex toys are created equal, and you’ll want to buy a vibrator designed to target the front wall of the vaginal canal. Getting a curved or angled vibrator can be a total game-changer when reaching the G-spot. These vibes often have a curve that’s like a GPS for your G-spot Consider a vibrator or a dual-stimulation vibrator that targets both the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously. One product that we especially recommend is Dame Arc.
- Find your G-spot: When it comes to finding your G-spot for the first time, you need to take a little DIY adventure to find it. Pop two fingers into your vagina and give ’em a little curl, like you’re pointing up towards your stomach. You might notice a softer, more sensitive patch in there, kind of like a sponge. Some folks say it’s close to their urethral sponge, so don’t be shy about trying out different angles and moves to find your sweet spot.
- Apply lube: Adding a water-based lube can make stimulation more comfortable and pleasurable. Apply a small amount of lube to the vibrator and your vaginal opening. Begin by using the vibrator externally on your clitoris to get aroused. Once you’re feeling turned on, slowly insert the vibrator into your vagina. Take your time and enjoy the sensations.
- Experiment with different movements: Try moving the vibrator in a “come here” motion to stimulate it. You can also try circular or side-to-side movements. Experiment with different speeds and pressures to find what feels most pleasurable. Don’t forget to play around with the vibration settings, and find your groove. Keep in mind, that we’re all unique, so it’s cool to try out different stuff until you find your personal sweet spot.
- Relax and enjoy: These orgasms can take time and practice to achieve, so don’t get discouraged if you don’t experience one right the first time. Focus on what feels pleasurable and enjoy the sensations that the vibrator provides. Remember, not all vulva owners can experience G-spot orgasms, and that’s totally okay.
If you’re new to sex toys or want more guidance, consider reading the guide from our sex educator Rachel Sommer about the proper way of using a G-spot vibrator.
Pro tip: Now if after some time you want to try other options than using a vibrator, why not call upon your partner and do it during partnered sex? One of the best sex positions for hitting the G-spot is typically doggy style or any position that allows for deep vaginal penetration. This allows the vibrator to reach the front wall of the vaginal canal where it is located. If you’re not a fan of doggy style, you can try other stuff. It might surprise you how different sex positions and techniques can help achieve this orgasm.
So, What G-Spot Vibrator Do I Need?
Luckily we live in modern times where there are a bunch of options when it comes to getting a vibrating sex toy. The most common types include:
Curved vibrators: these are designed with a curved tip that is specifically shaped to hit your G-spot. They come in a variety of sizes and materials, so you can choose one that feels comfortable and pleasurable for you. This type is great for beginners.
Rabbit vibrators: these are dual-stimulation vibrators that provide both clitoral and G-spot stimulation at the same time. They often have a curved tip for G-spot stimulation and a small attachment for clitoral stimulation. This one is great for women who also need clitoral stimulation to climax.
Note: But remember that these vibrators are specifically made to hit the G-spot effectively, if you lean towards clit stimulation a wee bit more then you can get a clitoral vibrator to maximize the fun.
Wand vibrators: these are larger, more powerful vibrators that can be used for both internal and external stimulation. They are great for those who prefer intense stimulation. However, for internal stimulation, you need to buy an attachment (i.e. you need to spend mo money).
No matter what type of G-spot vibe you choose, it’s important to take it slow and experiment with different speeds and vibration patterns to find what feels best for you. The journey can be more fun than the destination!
Where To Buy G-spot Vibrators?
Many online retailers have a great selection of G-spot toys, but during our best G-spot vibrator review, the toys we tested were mainly bought from these famous sex toy giants:
- Lovehoney
- Lovense
- Dame
- Lelo
- We-Vibe
Now, before you go ahead and make a purchase, it’s important to do your research. You want to make sure you find a vibrator that’s comfortable, effective, and enjoyable to use. So, please take some time to read reviews from other users and do a bit of comparison shopping. Trust me, it’s worth it to find the perfect toy for you and your G-spot!
Thanks for reading my guide on how to have a G-spot orgasm with a vibrator.
Sandra
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