So, you’ve decided to explore the world of sex toys and grab your very first vibrator. Congratulations! But since you are here, you probably realized that choosing the right vibrator can be a daunting task. With so many options available, it’s so easy to get overwhelmed! But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with this guide by Rachel Sommer, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and professional vibrator tester. She’ll walk you through all the considerations you should make on how to choose a vibrator that’s perfect for you. Let’s check them out:

Select the Vibrator Type

First, you need to think about what sensation you’re after because that will determine what type of vibrator to buy. Do you need clitoral stimulations to get off? Then go for a bullet or clit vibrator. Are you going hunting for that elusive G-spot deep inside the vagina? Then you need a dedicated G-pot vibrator with a long, curved shaft. Here is a full overview of all the types for your viewing pleasure:

Bullet Vibrators: These little champs are perfect for newcomers or anyone craving an extra dose of excitement in the bedroom. Bullet vibrators work wonders on the clitoris, nipples, or any other sweet spots you’ve got in mind. What’s more, their compact size means you can toss them in your purse or travel bag for some pleasure on the go.

Rabbit Vibrators: Rabbit vibrators have a shaft for that tantalizing internal sensation and a cute ‘rabbit’ buddy that dances on your clitoris with some seriously good vibrations. Some even come with fancy extras like fingering or rotating beads to take your pleasure game up a notch.

Clitoral Vibrators/Clit Suction Vibrators: A Clitoral vibrator is a toy made to heavily focus their sensations in the clitoris. Because clitoral vibrators are typically compact, they easily slip between partners’ bodies during intimate moments, adding an exciting dimension to partner sex.

Anal Vibrators: Anal vibrators are specially crafted for some backdoor excitement. They’re usually smaller and have a tapered design compared to other vibes. The cool thing is, that you can use them for both internal and external stimulation, making them a fantastic way to dive into a world of diverse pleasures.

Couples Vibrators: Couples vibrators are made to join the fun during sex and bring a double dose of pleasure. Some are designed to be worn inside by the woman, while others can be enjoyed externally by both partners. It’s like having a secret pleasure weapon that turns ‘we time’ into ‘wow time’!

Wand Vibrators: Like the legendary Hitachi Magic Wand, wand vibrators are powerful wand-shaped vibrators that bring heat when it comes to intense stimulation. They usually work their magic externally and are a go-to for those who may have had a tough time reaching the finish line with other vibes. The best thing about them? Wand vibrators work like a charm for muscle tension relief. They use deep vibrations to boost blood flow, soothe knots, and help you unwind.

Remote/App Control Vibrators: They’re like the thrill-seekers of the pleasure world, perfect for spicing up your sex life. With remote control vibrators, your partner can take charge from across the room or even from miles away, turning up the heat with various vibration patterns when you least expect it. You’ll find them in all sorts of shapes and sizes, from discreet bullets to those larger wand-style beauties.

G-Spot Vibrators: Think of a G-spot vibrator as your very own personal G-spot hunter, designed to hit that sweet spot inside the vagina that’s all about pleasure. These vibes usually come with a curved shape, just right for finding and stimulating the G-spot. It’s like having a treasure map for your body, leading to a world of diverse and delightful sensations!

Vibrating Panties: These panties come with a sneaky surprise—a tiny built-in vibrator. You can control vibrating panties with a remote or even a smartphone app, making it a thrilling adventure in public or private. They’re a playful way to explore new sensations and add some thrill to your day-to-day activity, whether you’re out and about or enjoying some alone time.

Tongue Vibrators: A tongue vibrator is a sex toy that aims to mimic the tantalizing sensations of oral sex. What sets them apart from most sex toys is their ingenious design – they often feature a small, tongue-shaped attachment that vibrates against the clitoris. This tongue-like action provides a remarkable and lifelike experience that many find incredibly satisfying.

If you’re new to the world of vibrators, choosing the right one can be a significant decision. We suggest starting by reading this guide on what vibrators are, as it will give you a better understanding before making your choice.

Choose The Material

Picking the right vibrator isn’t just about its shape and size; the material matters too. You’ll want a toy that not only feels good on your own body but is also made from body-safe materials. Let’s dive into some common materials you’ll come across and what you should keep in mind.

Silicone

Silicone is unanimously the top choice for body-safe material. They should be anyone’s go-to because they are non-porous, hypoallergenic, and a breeze to clean. Besides, its silky-smooth texture feels delightful against your skin and they come in various shapes and sizes, catering to all preferences, from discreet and slim to generously large and powerful.

Since most waterproof vibrators are made from silicone you can just wash them with mild soap and mildly heated water after use. It’s important to note that you should steer clear of silicone-based lubricants, as they can potentially harm the material of most vibrators.

ABS Plastic

ABS plastic is another popular choice for sex toys, especially those little champs like bullet vibrators. It’s a tough, easy-to-clean material that’s totally body-friendly. What’s even cooler? It’s often used in toys designed for external fun, so you won’t be left feeling awkward or uncomfortable.

To keep these sex toys in pristine condition, simply give them a gentle wash with mild soap and mildly heated water. Or, if you prefer, you can go for a specialized toy cleaner to keep things extra fresh.

Jelly-Like Materials

Jelly-like materials, like TPE and TPR, often find their home in budget-friendly vibes and other intimate toys. While they can feel soft, realistic, and squishy, there’s a catch—they’re porous and can play host to unwelcome bacteria. On top of that, some folks might even experience allergies to these materials.

If you do decide to go for jelly-like vibrators, it’s crucial to give them a good and thorough cleaning after each use with some mild antibacterial soap and warm water. Consider using a condom over the toy to ward off potential irritation or infections.

Cleaning is going to be a crucial factor when trying to pick sex toy materials. Here’s a quick guide on cleaning your vibrator, regardless of whether it’s made from porous or non-porous materials.

Stimulation and Sensation

When it comes to selecting a vibe, understanding your preferred type of stimulation is the name of the game. Do you lean towards external pleasure or is it all about the internal sensations for you? Perhaps you’re all in for a blend of both. No need to fret, we’ve got the perfect options to cater to your desires!

External

If you’re all about that glorious clitoral pleasure, then you’re in for a treat with external vibrators. These gems are expertly crafted to deliver intense sensations to your most sensitive external zones, making them the go-to choice for ultimate sexual pleasure. From the compact wonders of bullet vibes to the enchanting power of wand massagers, there’s a delightful variety to explore.

Now, let’s talk about everyone’s darling, the bullet vibrators. These discreet little powerhouses are like the welcoming committee for vibe newbies and experts alike. For vulva owners, whether you’re flying solo or sharing the fun with a partner, they’re here to provide intense clitoral pleasure and unlock the magic of your external erogenous zones.

If you want to check out the best bullet vibrators on the market, you can find them rounded up in our separate guide.

Internal

If you’re on the hunt for some fantastic stimulation from an internal vibrator, G-spot vibrators are your trusty companions. These toys are tailored to deliver powerful sensations to your G-spot making it easier to reach orgasm. With a range of shapes, sizes, and even vibration settings to choose from, you can easily discover one that complements your unique body. Here’s a list of the G-spot vibrators we recommend.

Alternatively, you can opt for the classic route with traditional vibrators, designed for intimate exploration inside the vagina. They’re like the seasoned explorers of the internal erogenous zones, available in various shapes and sizes to ensure a perfect fit for your body.

Double

If you’re after the ultimate pleasure experience, the tag team of external and internal stimulation is where it’s at. These versatile vibrators work their magic on both your inner and outer erogenous zones, dishing out intense satisfaction like a pro. Among the crowd-pleasers, you’ll find the ever-popular rabbit vibrators, famous for their ability to deliver simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

No matter your preference in stimulation, rest assured there are different types of vibrators out there with your name on it. Just keep in mind to pick one crafted from body-safe materials and follow the instructions for maximum pleasure. Happy exploring on your sensational journey!

Running Solo or Shared?

When it comes to picking the perfect vibrator, think about how you want to use it: whether it’s just for you or something you’d like to share with a partner. Here are some helpful pointers to help you decide.

If it’s a solo adventure you’re embarking on, you’ll want a vibrator that’s easy to use and hits all the right spots. Look for one that offers various speeds and settings to cater to your unique desires. A curved design can also add that extra wow factor to your sexual pleasure.

When you’re planning to use it with a partner, go for a versatile and seamless vibrator. It’s not just about spicing up your intimate moments; it’s also about taking care of your sexual health. Consider a discreet vibrator – it should be small, but still packs a powerful punch. For those exploring penetrative sex, there are vibrators designed to be worn during intercourse. These little wonders provide clitoral stimulation while you’re getting up close and personal. And if you both enjoy oral sex, a tongue-shaped vibrator can be an exciting addition to your collection. It takes the sensation of oral pleasure to new heights for both partners.

Always remember to communicate about what feels great and what doesn’t, and be open to trying new ways to enhance your pleasure while keeping your sexual health a priority. If you want to have a good grasp on how to use your first vibrator, you can check this guide on how to use a vibrator and how to use it on your partner’s penis. Enjoy exploring!

Making the Purchase

Shopping for sex toys online can be a great way to discreetly purchase a versatile vibrator or a new sex toy. Plus, you can easily compare prices and read reviews from other customers. Just make sure you’re buying from a reputable retailer. Some of the best vibrator options can be found on online retailers like Shevibe, Adam & Eve, and Lovehoney. These websites offer a wide variety of sex toys and vibrators for all preferences and budgets.

If you prefer to shop in person, there are plenty of physical sex shops where you can find the perfect vibrator. These shops often have knowledgeable staff who can help you find the best vibrator for your needs. But let’s be real, walking into a sex shop can be intimidating. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Just remember, the staff is there to help you and answer any questions you may have. Plus, they’ve probably heard it all before.

When shopping in a physical shop, you can touch and feel the vibrators before making a purchase. But if you to buy your first toy online, you better check our guide on where to buy sex toys to make sure you get the best and finest.

Thanks for reading my guide on how to choose a vibrator!

Rachel

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