After testing dozens of products, we crowned LELO Tiani 2 as this year’s best couples vibrator. The primary motivations were the steady vibrations to the G-spot and clitoris while offering enough room for penetrative sex. Its flexible silicone body also made it easier to adjust the angles compared to the other products. Other standout features included the SenseMotion remote control that made it easy to cycle through patterns by repeatedly shaking the disc and the broader clit stimulation compared to the other models.
Best Overall: LELO Tiani 2
LELO Tiani 2 got the highest rating in our review. Our testers especially loved how easy it was to adjust the C-shape on the vibrator to grapple onto the clitoral hood while leaving enough room for penetrative sex. Discount code MSTG15 for 15% off!
Beginner-Friendly: Dame Eva
The small size makes it easy to tuck inside the labia while leaving enough room for an erect penis or dildo. The flexible wings on either end are also easy to manipulate, making the small sex toy easy to use for newbies.
Strongest: We-Vibe Chorus
We-Vibe Chorus was the most powerful couples vibrator we tested. The powerful motor offers an impressive range of sensations that guarantees a consistent buzz that’s perfect for pairing with penis-in-vagina sex.
Why You Should Trust Us
Rachel Sommer’s sex toy prowess speaks for itself. Before she joined the sex experts at my Sex Toy Guide in 2016, Ms. Sommer was a sexologist, testing different sex toys, including vibrators for couples. “I love providing people-centered solutions, and there’s no better way to do it than present multiple sex toy recommendations tailored to meet the specific couple’s need”, she confirms.
For this article, Rachel assembled a team of experts consisting of Sandra Larson and Shane Davis. She also included products for all budgets and body types, to ensure an inclusive roundup list.
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1. LELO Tiani 2: Best Couple Vibrator & Most Comfortable
Why we love LELO Tiani 2:
Let’s start with the test winner: LELO Tiani 2. The testers loved the small body (3.3″ long) because it made the sex toy unobstructed during sex. Once you slid the G-spot stimulator inside the vagina and made a few adjustments to the clitoral vibrator, Tiani 2 felt more comfortable than the other models we reviewed.
Something else that stood out was the elegant packaging. It looked and felt luxurious, and the package has everything you need to get started – the Lelo couples vibrator, USB charging cable, remote control disc, storage bag, and instructions manual (see image below). Other sex toy companies, take notes!
The testers also appreciated how easy it was to adjust the C-shape on the vibrator to grapple onto the clitoral hood while creating enough room for penetrative sex. “The all-silicone body feels squishy for the wearer and penetrating partner, making sex more enjoyable than the other products I reviewed”, our tester Sandra Larson wrote in her test report.
The SenseMotion technology was the icing on the cake. LELO Tiani 2 has a motion-responsive remote control that lets you regulate the rumbles by holding it vertically or shaking it repeatedly (modes 1 and 2, respectively). Mode 2 might be easier for most people because shaking the disc during sex might be easier than holding it steadily in one position. Great design, LELO!
Another great design tweak was the vibrating remote control (seen in the image above). Unlike most reviewed models, LELO Tiani 2’s SenseMotion remote control vibrates in response to the sex toy’s rumbles. This way, your partner can feel how intense or mellow the vibrations are and adjust accordingly.
So how were the vibrations? Well, everyone agreed that the vibrations were steady and powerful, especially for such a small-sized vibrator. While Tiani 2 might not be powerful enough for someone after explosive clit horsepower, it’s intense for the size. With eight vibration modes, adjustable speeds, and two SenseMotion settings to explore, we feel that this versatile sex toy is a must-have in your sex toy collection.
Note: According to the reviewers, the device stays inside for most sex positions, but not all. Our tester Angela Kempf reported this: “Doggystyle and missionary worked great, but it popped out whenever we switched to ‘more difficult’ porn star-like positions.” So please take this into consideration before buying it.
But how about LELO Tiani 3?
Like the Loki Wave, the new model draws mixed reactions. On one end, it has a differently shaped clitoral vibrator, with a big, square shape ideal for broad clitoral stimulation compared to the pinpoint stimulation from Tiani 2. However, both models have so much in common.
At the end of the day, LELO Tiani 2 offers as much power and flexibility for less, and it’s still our testers’ favorite. In addition, it has two internal arm attachments to suit all body shapes.
In the image above, you can see the two models compared side by side (The original Tiani 2 on the right and the new Tiani 3 on the left). For more information about the differences between the two products, please read our Lelo Tiani 3 review here. You can also find a review of all Lelo products here.
Minor issues we found during testing:
Unfortunately, Tiani 2’s discretion ends with the lower settings. The wearable couples vibrator gets noisier when you transition to the higher vibration speeds.
In addition, the disc might be great because it simplifies couples’ play, but the settings could be more intuitive. SenseMotion mode 1 was fun, but holding the disc in precisely one position is challenging. On the other hand, mode 2 entails repeatedly shaking the wireless remote throughout the session, and I couldn’t do it all through.
Why LELO Tiani 2 is the best couples vibrator overall:
Some of the standout features from the expert panel reports include the following:
- Design: LELO Tiani 2’s body got a 95% average score, the highest on this list. The test panel loved how small yet functional it was, pointing out how the well-thought-out design made penetrative sex more pleasurable. With an extra G-spot stimulator head to suit all body types, the vibrator is ideal for pinpointing internal and external stimulation.
- Control: While the controls were tricky and the manual came in hand, the SenseMotion remote control was a game changer. Besides exemplifying partnered play, it makes cycling through the vibration settings.
- Build Quality: The all-silicone and ABS plastic build stood out. The squishy finish felt comfortable to the wearer and didn’t get in the way of the penetrating partner. In addition, it comes in three color options, which was a big plus in our inclusive test category.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Length: 3.3″
- Circumference: 3.25″
Pros:
- The most comfortable couples vibrator.
- Outstanding SenseMotion technology.
- The small, flexible vibrator is easy to use.
- Impressive 8 vibration settings and adjustable speeds.
- The sex toy has an extra g-spot stimulator to suit all body shapes.
- It comes in an elegant package.
Cons:
- It falls out in extreme sex positions.
- The couple’s vibrator is pricey – $119.99 – $189.
2. We-Vibe Chorus: Strongest Couples Vibrator
Why we love We-Vibe Chorus:
Let’s move on to We-Vibe Chorus which was the strongest couples toy we tested. The testers unanimously agreed that the potent motor offered an impressive range of sensations with a consistent buzz perfect for pairing with penis-in-vagina thrusting. Its 7 patterns and 3 speeds make it an ideal choice for a wide range of consumers.
So what about the design? Our tester Sandra Larson summed it up like this: “The wearable C-shaped vibe snugly rests on the clitoris while an inner arm stays snugly in the vagina in pursuit of the elusive G-spot. Notably, the internal prober is smaller and doesn’t get in your way during sex. Most importantly, the vibrations are shared on both arms, and the overflow lands on the penis, creating an exciting blend of fun.” Overall, it performed very well in this test category, slightly behind Tiani 2 above.
Something that stood out during the review was the innovative squeeze remote control (image above). It matches your grip strength to the vibration intensity, keeping you involved throughout the session. While I was surprised at how strongly you have to grip the remote control to get it to maximum power, it was an exciting way to regulate the rumbles. Especially because the built-in control interface was a bit tricky to use.
Besides the squeeze remote control, the We-Vibe couples vibrator is compatible with the We-Vibe Chorus app (screenshots below). We had a few issues connecting the two, but unpairing and pairing them again sorted the hitch.
The easy-to-use mobile app opens a world of new possibilities. You can control the We-Vibe Chorus from anywhere, enjoy the pre-set vibration patterns, draw unique patterns with your finger, and save your favorite. You can also use it to text or video chat with your partner to schedule playtime or build up to the moment. Bravo, We-Vibe!
The We-Vibe Chorus app also lets you enjoy sense motion functions. It simulates a real sexual encounter reacting to the natural grinding movements with a series of buzzing. The best part? You don’t even have to be having sex to make the most out of it – as long as you’re close and grinding (dry humping), the vibrator will respond. Sweet!
Like other vibrators, you must warm up before diving into penetrative sex. You’ll need lube and lots of adjustments until you find a comfortable placement, so please be aware of this before buying it. Lastly, not all sex positions will work – doggy style and missionary proved the best, but the vibrator kept popping out whenever we tried switching between positions.
Minor issues we found during testing:
Unfortunately, the sense motion functionality is only available on the mobile app. I’d have loved it if the designers included a button on the squeeze remote for sense motion.
It can be challenging for the couple’s vibrator to stay in position, especially in sex positions that work against gravity. I hear mixed opinions about this so I love to hear our reader’s opinions. Please send me an email at rachel@mysextoyguide.com or leave a comment below.
The powerful vibrator is indiscreet and not the best choice for public play fans. The buzz can be too loud unless you go to a noisy place like a concert. In addition, it tends to slip out, so you’ll need fitted underwear paired with tight leggings anyway.
Why We-Vibe Chorus is the strongest couples vibrator:
- Stimulations: We-Vibe Chorus got the best power rating among the models we reviewed (Average score: 96%). Besides offering numerous vibration patterns and speeds, the consistent flow of the rumbles was incredible. Even at the lowest settings, the vibrations were more impactful than most of the couples’ vibrators we reviewed.
- Settings: Besides the pre-set 3 speeds and 7 vibration patterns, the We-Vibe Chrous mobile app offers multiple functionalities. Everything from unlimited customization to music sync and long-distance control, the testing panel loved the efficiency. In addition, the squeeze remote control appeals to the ‘handy’ users with 3 sense motion modes that let you regulate the vibration intensity with your grip.
- Ease of Use: You can regulate the experience in three ways. While the buttons could be more intuitive, the ergonomic wireless remote control and easy-to-use smartphone app significantly benefit solo-play users and couples.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Insertable Length: 3″
Pros:
- A great toy for long-distance couples.
- Unique sense motion technology.
- Stunning design.
- Its small inner arm stimulates the G-spot without getting in the way.
- Multiple control options.
- The Chorus couples vibrator is completely waterproof.
Cons:
- We-Vibe Chorus costs a fortune – $199.
- Keeping it in place can be challenging.
3. Dame Eva: Easiest To Use, Best Value & Beginner-Friendly
Why we love Dame Eva:
Want something easy to use? Then you should try Dame Eva. Our testers rated it as the easiest-to-use couples vibrator thanks to its ergonomic design and all-silicone squishy body. The small size makes it easy to tuck inside the labia while leaving enough room for an erect penis or dildo. The flexible wings on either end are also easy to manipulate, making using the small sex toy straightforward.
Furthermore, unlike most of the models we reviewed, it didn’t feel uncomfortable, and it took the least time for first-time couples’ sex toy users to get on board. In the image below, you can see me measuring the size with a tape measure.
Our tester Rachel Sommer summed up the beginner-friendly design like this: “The design means it tucks into the labia, providing maximum contact with the clitoris. The vibrations are thus more impactful than the traditional couples’ vibrators. And because it doesn’t have an intrusive arm, you don’t have to worry about the sex toy getting in the way during penetrative sex.”
One minor flaw we found was that Eva can be fidgety initially, but it gets better after a few times. You can either pull the inner labia and cushion the sex toy with it or flip it upside down and adjust it higher and lower depending on your body shape and size.
Besides the unmatched comfort, we also found the sex toy stays in place in some sex positions and occasionally pops out during others. Overall, staying still gets you the best retention time. Better yet, you can hold it against the clit during positions like missionary during solo play or have your partner do it for you. After all, pressing it against you helps add to the stimulation because its small motor doesn’t pack as much juice.
Lastly, the vibrator has three settings, which gradually increase power. While the third setting is more on the buzzy than the rumbly side. I prefer the latter, but it’s all a personal preference.
Pro Tip: I used Dame Eva II without lube, and it held on better. Of course, it gave in to gravity, but I wanted to share that if you wish to see if it helps with retention.
Minor issues we found during testing:
Unfortunately, it’s not the most powerful couple’s vibrator, and you must hold it against the clitoris to get the most power from the vibrations.
While it might be one of the best sex toys for couples, Eva is only available in a single size, and might not work for all body types.
Why Dame Eva is the best cheap couples vibrator:
- Size: Dame Eva was the smallest couple’s vibrator we tested. It can fit in your pocket seamlessly and can pass as a kid’s toy to the public’s eyes. The small size makes wearing it during sex easy, even if it’s your first time.
- Design: The concave body design elevates comfort when wearing Damme Eva II. In addition, the wings enhance security, ensuring it doesn’t pop off easily. Overall, it was the most beginner-friendly among all the products we tested.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unpacking and review summary video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Length: 1.7″
- Width: 1.3″ & 2.4″ (with the wings included)
Pros:
- A well-thought couples sex toy.
- The small body and inscribed wings make it easy to use.
- Multiple intensity levels.
- Intuitive single-button control interface.
- The vibe is waterproof.
- A genius travel buddy.
Cons:
- It pops off in some sex positions.
- The sex toy is available in a single size and might not work for all body types.
4. Lovense Dolce: Best App-Controlled Couples Vibrator
Why we love Lovense Dolce:
Next, we have something for the techies: Lovense Dolce. We say this because it’s compatible with the popular Lovense app – the best sex toy mobile application in our humble opinion. Besides its user-friendly interface, the smartphone app is always reliable and has a ton of functionalities. In addition, it connects with the vibrator quickly via Bluetooth, and I haven’t experienced any disconnection issues like with the We-Vibe app.
The mobile app offers a selection of pre-set vibration patterns while letting you customize your own for a fun and personalized experience. It has a video and voice chat platform that helps foster an intimate connection with your partner, even when you’re halfway across the world. Other impressive capabilities included the music sync feature that allows you to sync the vibrations to your favorite music – you can also do it with your lover’s voice. You can see screenshots of the smartphone app below.
As with all Lovense products, it has an outstanding design. Everything from the high-quality silicone material to the high-grade craftsmanship that guarantees durability stood out. In addition, the sleek body feels very comfortable inside.
It’s also worth mentioning that Dolce was among the most potent models we reviewed, slightly behind Chorus above. Coupled with the relatively small form factor makes it perfect for self-pleasuring and partnered sex. We also appreciated the adjustable neck that made it easy to adjust the angles for pinpoint clitoral and G-spot stimulation (you can see me testing the adjustable neck in the image below).
Pro Tip: Altering the angle while the sex toy was inside proved challenging. Therefore, I recommend adjusting the position before inserting it in the vagina. Of course, you’ll need some fine-tuning while it’s inside, but do the bulk of the work outside.
Unlike its cousin Lush 3, Dolce has a bigger inner arm, and you might have to look elsewhere if your partner has a massively girthy dick. Some reviewers recommended using We-Vibe Jive (Jive review here) – it’s more accommodative and cheaper. However, the mobile app isn’t as responsive, and the functionalities aren’t as diverse.
Lastly, the sex toy is a powerhouse with two powerful motors that work in tandem to deliver intense internal and external stimulation. The motors are more rumbly than buzzy (my favorite), making the sex toy perfect for those who prefer more profound and satisfying vibrations.
Minor issues we found during testing:
As mentioned before, the G-spot prober might be too big for some people. While those after the feeling of fullness and vaginal stretching will love to wear it during sex, penetrating partners with massive cocks or receiving partners with tightly spaced pelvic floor muscles will have to look for a smaller couple’s vibrator, like Tiani 2 above
The massive internal arm initially makes Lovense Dolce slightly uncomfortable because it feels bulky. Newbies may have to start with a more beginner-friendly model like Dame Eva or the Jive couples vibrator.
Lastly, the two-button interface’s placement could be better. I often fumbled, trying to reach the buttons on the clitoral stimulator.
Why Lovense Dolce is the best Bluetooth vibrator for couples:
- Special Features: With an average score of 97%, the Lovense Remote app is the best sex toy mobile application. It was the most reliable, intuitive, and responsive among the reviewed models. The team was also amazed at how easy it was to pair it with the vibrator.
- Build Quality: Lovense Dolce might have a pretty face, but it’s also built to last. The attention to detail was outstanding – everything from the silicone material covering the entire vibrator to the robust dual motor design and the compact body was incredible.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Insertable Length: 3.54″
- Internal Arm Width: 1.5″
Pros:
- The best Bluetooth couples vibrator.
- Outstanding dual motor design.
- It’s compatible with the best sex toy mobile application.
- The adjustable neck makes it easy to target the G-spot and clitoris.
- An impressive battery of up to 2 hours.
- Multiple vibration speeds and patterns.
Cons:
- The button placement feels weird.
- It might be bulky, especially for people with tighter pelvic muscles.
5. We-Vibe Sync 2: Best Remote-Controlled Couples Vibrator
Why we love We-Vibe Sync 2:
We-Vibe Sync is the best option if you want a remote-controlled model. Sync is also compatible with the renowned We-Connect app, significantly simplifying close-range and long-distance control. The mobile app also opens your world to endless possibilities, with impeccable versatility that lets you enjoy hands-free pleasure. The best part? Unlike other models, the application lets you independently regulate the vibrations on the G-spot arm and clitoral tickler. Other adult companies, take notes!
The team found it easy to connect the toy with the We-Connect app. We tested everything from setting up to the fascinating customization options and it worked flawlessly. I especially enjoyed messing with the patterns and creating my own – the app even has a beat mode, where the rumbles vibrate to the rhythm of your favorite music. Just wow!
We-Vibe Sync 2 is also perfect for long-distance lovers seeking to bridge the intimacy gap. The dual stimulation design and independent motor control make it easily customizable and a favorite pick for different sex toy users.
Something else that stood out during the review was the seamless design. As you can see in the image above, the designers paid attention to detail with thoughtful touches like the easy-to-grab button (circled in the below image) that significantly enhances handling. I also loved the internal arm’s flat demeanor because it makes the sex toy friendlier for beginners and people with ultra-sensitive bits. Unlike other couple-play toys, the We-Vibe Sync 2 feels less intrusive and very comfortable.
I wasn’t as excited with the ultra-grippy texture as others on the testing panel were. I think the ridges were a bit sharp to my liking (sharper than the original We-Vibe Sync), and people with ultra-sensitive parts will note the slight discomfort. However, the change was necessary, making the new Sync 2 better suited for public play. “The texturing and the small size mean you can comfortably use the sex toy in public without it popping out”, our tester Sandra Larson added.
The stimulations pack a punch, imposing more impactful vibrations than the original Sync. Of course, I’ve used more powerful sex toys, but Sync 2’s vibrations are powerful for the size.
We-Vibe Sync 2 has a wireless remote control (image above) for instances when you don’t feel like connecting the toy with the mobile app. Unlike the application, the We-Vibe toy comes paired with the remote control. We tested it without issues up to 20 feet, an impressive range for the couple’s vibrator. We can safely say that with a silicone finish and easy-to-push buttons, the remote control enhances the user experience.
Note: Like other 2nd generation sex toys, the We-Vibe Sync 2 has several upgrades, including a quieter and more powerful motor, better battery life, and a more comfortable insertable arm for extended public play.
The ridges are slimmer on the new model, which makes the texture rougher for people with ultra-sensitive parts. However, the upgraded surface promotes better retention during public play.
Pro Tips: If you’re okay without some of the bells and whistles, We-Vibe is selling a less expensive and scaled-down version called Sync Lite. You can see the two models side by side in the image below. You can also read our We-Vibe Sync Lite review here.
Minor issues we found during testing:
Unfortunately, I wasn’t a big fan of the slimmer ridges because they made the internal arm rougher and uncomfortable for people with ultra-sensitive parts.
In addition, the remote control is not waterproof like the toy, a limiting factor for aquatic play fans. Remembering to keep the remote out of the water can be a tall order because I easily get carried away.
Why We-Vibe Sync 2 is the best remote-controlled couple’s vibrator:
- Special Features: We-Vibe Sync 2’s remote control was the highlight of the review. The review panel pointed out the all-silicone build and easy-to-grab buttons, emphasizing how they enhance the user experience. The remote control has an excellent range of up to 20 feet, which was better than the other remote-controlled models we tested.
- Design: We appreciated the seamless design. The designers paid attention to the last detail, with the easy-to-grab buttons, multiple colors, and a flat internal arm to enhance the user experience and make it easy to pick your ideal vibrator.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
You can read our complete We-Vibe Sync 2 review here.
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Size: 1.6″ x 2.9″
Pros:
- An incredible remote-controlled couple’s vibrator.
- Multiple control options – remote control and mobile app.
- Travel-friendly – small and wearable.
- Ideal vibrator for long-distance lovers.
- The toy is waterproof.
- An incredibly versatile sex toy.
Cons:
- The grippy texture can be uncomfortable for people with ultra-sensitive parts.
- A rechargeable/waterproof remote control would’ve been better.
6. Lovehoney Ignite Cock Ring: Best For Men
Why we love Lovehoney Ignite:
Most couples’ vibrators we’ve reviewed are for women, so why not get a vibrating cock ring that penis owners can use? Unlike the traditional vibrating cock rings, Ignite’s rabbit ears make it a jack of all trades. You don’t have to rely on your partner being on top during sex; the protruding ears stimulate her clitoris regardless of the position or angle. The nifty ring design also meant I could spin the sex toy to face up or down for maximum efficiency.
Unlike Lovehoney Bed Ringer, Ignite won’t numb your partner’s clitoris. The smaller motor and bunny ears’ length ensure a well-measured grit, just enough to tingle the hood and complement penetrative sex.
The reviewers praised the design, which made it easy to wear the penis ring, even when fully erect (I demonstrated how to put it on a dildo in the image above). “The stretchy silicone material gives in quickly while maintaining a snug fit around the base, restricting blood flow and promoting longer and stronger erections”, our tester Shane Davis reported
In addition, the powerful motor has an excellent range of vibration settings- 17 patterns and 3 speeds. With an intuitive single-button interface (circled in the image below), the sex toy is foolproof.
Note: A single button might be foolproof, but it can be unpleasant to miss your favorite pattern because it means repeatedly pressing the same button. And for a 20-function vibrator, it can kill the mood in a split second.
The vibrating cock ring is a fantastic travel buddy. It’s small and USB-rechargeable, with up to 180 minutes of uninterrupted rumbles. In addition, the packaging looks elegant and even comes with a storage bag. Very giftable, indeed!
Minor issues we found during testing:
The vibrator solo-button interface can be a mood killer. You don’t want to be cycling 20+ times just to get back to your favorite vibrator setting. Do you?
It’s only available in one size, and folks with an extra girthy cock might find it too tight.
Why Lovehoney Ignite is the best male couples vibrator:
- Settings: Lovehoney Ignite has the most extensive number of vibration settings among the reviewed cock rings. With 3 speeds and 17 patterns, the sex toy offers an incredible platform to customize your self-pleasuring and coupled sex experience.
- Design: The cock ring got an impressive 97% average score in the critical design category. The inscribed rabbit ears made it adaptable and the best vibrating ring for couples. With the versatile build, nothing is impossible – I often use the soft ears for nipple stimulation on Jessica while performing oral sex.
- Battery Life: With up to 3 hours of unfazed rumbles, Lovehoney Ignite is up there with the best battery life records at My Sex Toy Guide.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Dimensions: 4.8″ x 3.5″ x 2.2″
Pros:
- The best cock ring for men.
- Durable silicone material.
- Excellent range of settings – 17 patterns and 3 speeds.
- It’s waterproof.
- The best battery life – 180 minutes.
- Stylish packaging.
Cons:
- Well-endowed men might find it tight.
- The control interface is a mood killer.
7. Lovense Hush 2: Best For Anal Stimulations
Why we love Lovense Hush 2:
Lovense Hush 2 is marketed as the ”world’s first interactive anal plug.” so we were especially excited to try this one out. First off, Hush 2 is compatible with the Lovense Remote app, significantly simplifying close-range and long-distance control. The application also offers unlimited customization and lets you save up to 10 of your own patterns. I used the anal vibe multiple times and never experienced connection or lagging issues. All this made us rank it as the best sex toy mobile application.
Let’s move on to the design. “I loved the bullet-like tapered design with a pointed edge that graduates into a wide body before narrowing down towards the neck (seen in the image below). The design simplifies penetration and enhances retention during sex or when you continue your daily chores”, our tester Shane Davis wrote in his test report.
The team also appreciated that the butt plug is available in four sizes, making it perfect for beginners, intermediate, and experienced users (it topped the inclusive and versatility categories for this reason). I used the medium size, and it felt incredible. I’m not the most experience in anal play, but it has an excellent resistance and pleasure balance. I didn’t need as much lube as anticipated, and the feeling of having a sex toy in the ass and a dildo in the vagina was exceptional.
Let’s finish the review by talking about the motor. I felt the motor was quite powerful and delivered a good blend of rumbly vibrations. There are four pre-set patterns and three speeds, which I define as “decent enough”. In addition, the mobile app has ten patterns, three intensity levels, and multiple customization options. So those who want to have more options should definitely use the phone app.
Minor issues we found during testing:
The anal vibrator is over-reliant on the Lovense Remote app f control. The built-in interface has a button that’s hard to reach once the toy is inserted. In addition, there’s little to enjoy without connecting the sex toy to the app.
In addition, the vibrator is just an anal sex toy, not a prostate stimulation vibe. The vibrations are also flimsy and experienced folks looking for intense, back-breaking rumbles will be disappointed.
Unfortunately, the anal vibrator is too reliant on the Lovense Remote app. The solo button at the base can
Why Lovense Hush 2 is best for anal stimulations:
- Design: Lovense Hush 2’s build with a tapered head and onion-like shape simplifies insertion and promotes gentle anal stimulation. The review team also loved the slimline neck that enhances retention and the multiple sizes that render the sex toy ideal for multiple users. All those goodies made it handily beat the other anal toys we tested.
- Special Features: While the single-button interface might not be as pleasant, the anal vibrator’s compatibility with the best sex toy mobile application – the Lovense Remote app was a game changer. It simplifies long-distance and close-range control, offering more vibration settings and customization options.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
Pros:
- Well-made couples butt plug for anal stimulations.
- It’s available in multiple sizes.
- Multiple vibration combinations.
- It’s compatible with the Lovense Remote app.
- Enjoyable for people of different genders.
- The waterproof sex toy has a great battery life.
Cons:
- It’s a butt plug and won’t work for people seeking prostate stimulation.
- The vibrator is too reliant on the mobile app.
8. We-Vibe Sync O: Most Comfortable
Why we love We-Vibe Sync O:
If you’re looking for a comfortable clitoral vibrator to add to your shared pleasure experience, the We-Vibe Sync O is your best bet. The brand might have nixed the internal vibrator, but the redesigned sex toy’s less intrusive shape and flexible body make it more comfortable than most wearable sex toys in my collection.
Choosing a good couple’s vibrator can be a daunting task because the toy must appeal to both partners. But we thought that Sync O balances these comfort demands impeccably, ensuring the wearer and penetrating partner enjoy a cozy experience. Excellent work, We-Vibe!
Combining the smooth silicone material with a flexible shape and tapered tip was a winning formula. “Inserting the sex toy is bliss, and the curved C-shape is pliable, making it easy to adjust the angles and positions to match your body size and shape. In addition, the silky finish means even with the inner arm, your partner can penetrate your vagina without any discomfort for them and you”, our tester Rachel Sommer reported.
Besides the comfort, the team loved the robust motor. As anticipated, it’s not the most powerful on this list, but it stakes a claim for such a small size. The sensations feel rumbly and powerful, adding a new dimension of pleasure to partner play.
The motor churns out ten vibration patterns, making the sex toy ideal for explorers. Although the intensity and consistency changes are slight from one pattern to another, the sensations provide an excellent range to explore. Moreover, the mobile application adds to the possibilities with more customization options and bells and whistles like multi-vibe control and video chatting.
Something else that stood out was the multi-control options. You can use the included remote controller (circled in the image above) if you don’t fancy the built-in single-button control interface. Everything from the all-silicone body to the slightly raised buttons makes it easy to use.
The tech-savvy sex toy users can also make use of the redesigned We-Vibe app (screenshot above). The comparatively simplified user interface lets you regulate the vibration patterns with multiple fun motions. In addition, people in long-distance relationships can control each other’s experience with the mobile application. Other bells and whistles include multi-vibe control and messaging options like video chatting to schedule play and sex before unleashing the sensations on your partner.
Lastly, We-Vibe toys have outstanding build quality, and Sync O was no exception. The vibrator is relatively tiny, making it perfect for travel. It feels solid on the hands, and even with extended use during sex, I still feel like it’s one of those sex toys that can outlast you. Everything from the well-thought-out dimensions to the all-silicone body and compact build makes it stand out from other competing names.
Minor issues we found during testing:
A significant concern was the nixed internal stimulation arm. The designers took out the vibrations from the inner pony, channeling all the rumbles to the clitoris. Anyone who relies on intense G-spot stimulation to orgasm won’t be as thrilled to use the We-Vibe Sync O.
Like other wearable sex toys with an internal arm, Sync O isn’t ideal for people with vaginismus and chronic sexual pain. If you do, I recommend Dame Eva if you want a couple’s vibrator that’s unproblematic.
Why We-Vibe Sync O is the most comfortable couple’s vibrator:
- Design: We-Vibe Sync O outranked all other products in the “Most Comfortable” test category. The review panel highlighted how the outstanding design language and carefully thought-out dimensions made the sex toy extremely comfortable. Unless you have vaginismus and chronic sexual pain (pick Dame Eva instead), the vibe’s shape and choice of materials mean you’ll enjoy the experience, whether solo or with your partner.
- Special Features: The couples vibrator’s compatibility with the We-Vibe app opens your world to new possibilities. Besides the Lovense Remote app, no other sex toy application is as easy to pair and fun to use as the We-Connect app. The application is handy whether you’re in the same room or miles away from each other.
- Stimulations: While the couple’s vibrator wasn’t the most potent among the reviewed models, We-Vibe designers did an impeccable job balancing comfort and power. The clitoral stimulation sex toy is the best choice for people who only need clit sensations to climax but prioritize comfort and flexibility.
If you want to see how the product is like physically, or how it is used, please check out our unboxing and review summary video below:
You can read our complete review of We-Vibe Sync O here.
Features:
- Material: Silicone
- Size: 3.15″ x 1.73″ x 1.75″
Pros:
- The most comfortable couple’s vibrator.
- Impressive comfort and flexibility.
- An excellent range of ten vibration patterns.
- Responsive remote control and mobile app.
- A rechargeable and waterproof sex toy for shared pleasure.
- Two-year warranty for quality and material defects.
Cons:
- It might not be ideal for people with vaginismus and chronic sexual pain.
- The couple’s vibrator is pricey – $169.
Other Good Alternatives
Lelo Soraya Wave is the best couples rabbit vibrator. The dual-stimulation toy has impressive features like the come-hither motion that mimics fingering, making G-spot stimulation more exciting. In addition, the vibrating clit flicker stimulates the clitoris, combining external and internal stimulation meticulously. With a soft silicone body, an easy-to-use loop handle, and easy-push buttons, the rabbit vibrator stood out from the reviewed models. You can read our complete Lelo Soraya Wave review here.
Dame Arc is the best couples G-spot vibrator. The versatile sex toy has a soft, bulbous tip for precise sensations and a curved shape to make navigating to the G-spot straightforward. The waterproof vibrator has five vibration patterns and a relatively intuitive control interface for G-spot stimulation fans. The versatile, ergonomic design makes it easy to reach the destination, while the curved body, strong motor, and angled ridge ensure the rumbles have maximum impact. You can read our Dame Arc review here.
Everything We Tested
In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criteria.
Link | Tiani 2 | Chorus | Eva | Dolce | Sync 2 | Ignite | Hush 2 |
Category | Best Overall | Strongest | Beginner | App-Controlled | Remote-Controlled | Men | Stimulation |
Average Rating | 95% | 92% | 91% | 90% | 94% | 87% | 85% |
Design | 95% | 93% | 89% | 90% | 95% | 97% | 86% |
Ease of Use | 93% | 91% | 95% | 82% | 90% | 89% | 87% |
Versatility | 92% | 92% | 91% | 90% | 89% | 86% | 87% |
Settings | 93% | 92% | 90% | 89% | 89% | 88% | 90% |
Stimulation | 93% | 92% | 92% | 90% | 88% | 89% | 95% |
Build Quality | 90% | 92% | 90% | 89% | 89% | 88% | 97% |
Battery Life | 91% | 90% | 89% | 90% | 91% | 85% | 87% |
Range | 92% | 89% | 92% | 88% | 88% | 86% | 84% |
Special Feature | 90% | 92% | 91% | 97% | 88% | 88% | 86% |
Price & Value | 89% | 86% | 91% | 92% | 93% | 95% | 93% |
Price Tag | $119.99 – $189 | $199 | $140 | $139.99 | $159 | $34.99 | $79 |
Material | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone | Silicone |
Insertable Length | 3.3 inches | 3 inches | 1.7 inches | 3.54 inches | 3 inches | N/A | 3.86 – 5.16 inches |
How We Picked the Products
For this article, I started by engaging the team to understand their non-negotiables when buying couples’ vibrators and their top recommendations. I then compiled a list inspired by my vibrator use and the teams’ responses (image below).
I also defined test criteria to guide that we could measure using well-defined quantitative metrics. These factors included the following:
- Design. Like other sex toys, the ideal design depends on the specific sexual desire. For couples vibrators, flexibility plays a significant role. The vibe must have an ideal size and functionality balance to ensure the design doesn’t get in the way and impede penetration.
- Versatility. While the baseline for couples vibrators is ‘to be used during intercourse,’ the best models provide precise G-spot and clitoral stimulation, completely freeing both partners’ hands to focus on other erogenous zones during sex. And even with cock rings, the goal is to add a layer of stimulation for both partners during sex.
- Settings. As always, we prioritized couples’ vibrators with many vibration settings. After all, more modes make it easy for the user to customize the experience while rendering the sex toy ideal for different users.
- Stimulations. We also prioritized the vibrations’ strength concerning the user’s preference. Some vibrators are more rumbly, while others are buzzier. So, to make it easier to pick the ideal model, we included both types in the article.
- Ease of Use. The team paid attention to the user experience, giving couples vibrators with an intuitive interface priority. Everything from punchy buttons to ease of wearing and flexibility was considered when separating the best from the rest.
- Build Quality. We only reviewed couples’ vibrators made from silicone. We also focused more on tried and tested brands like LELO, We-Vibe, and Lovense to ensure you dive into the experience with poise.
- Range. Most couples’ vibrators have a remote control to enhance the user experience and avoid annoying pit stops during sex. Admittedly, the range is essential, and we ensured we picked models with more than 10 meters of control range.
- Charging & Battery Life. Your sex toy’s battery type affects the experience. As always, I instructed the team to pick rechargeable models because they’re more reliable. We also gauged the battery output to ensure the top picks provided abundant life to support several sessions without recharging.
- Special Features. The list wouldn’t have been complete without putting in outstanding couples vibrators with the bells and whistles every user yearns. And while some of the features come at a cost, the team was eager to review models with remote control and dedicated mobile app control. Smartphone applications, especially, offer loads of capabilities, which makes them even more lovable.
During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Stimulations (25%) and Design (25%). After that comes Build Quality (10%), Ease of Use (10%), and Versatility (5%).
When the test panel returned, I analyzed the findings with Sandra and Tim. Besides using charts to lump the similarities and highlight the differences, we surfed the internet for reviews from sex toy forums and vendors to understand the public perception. This positive and multi-faceted approach leads us to believe these are this year’s best couples vibrators. Learn more.
What Is a Couples Vibrator?
A couples vibrator is a sex toy designed to be used during penetrative sex. Most models feature a slimline inner arm that slides into the vagina without getting in the way and another hugging the clitoris. Some models, like Dame Eva (on the right side below), have no inner arm but is resting externally instead.
Other categories include vibrating cock rings that share the rumbles between the wearer’s penis and the partner’s clitoris. We also have anal vibrators that enhance the feeling of fullness through anus stimulation, making the penetrative experience more stimulating.
Why Should I Use a Couples Vibrator?
Introducing sex toys in the bedroom strengthens the relationship and enhances sexual satisfaction. Couples vibrators take the pressure off you and your partner so you can focus more on enjoying the experience and not being perfect.
Couples’ sex toys foster better communication during sex and increase the chances of having multiple orgasms.
What To Look for In a Couples Vibrator (Buyers Guide)
Design: The vibrator’s structure will depend on your stimulation preference and what gets you off. For instance, consider the vibe’s internal arms dimensions and adjustability if you’re a woman. For men, the cock ring should be easy to wear and preferably have rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation during sex.
Other design considerations include the size – ensure the dimensions match your experience and what you want to achieve with the couple’s vibrator.
Material: Only buy vibrators made from hypoallergenic and non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone and ABS Plastic. These materials are hygienic and easy to clean. In addition, they’re durable, and with proper maintenance, you’ll save a few bucks.
Settings & Power: The number of settings determines how far you can go with a sex toy. You want to go for the model with the most because it offers an incentive to customize the experience. On the other hand, the power will depend on your experience. If you can strike a balance between the settings and power, you can use any vibrator – after all, the graduating intensity levels let you pick the rhythm – mellow or intense.
Control: Couples vibes with remote controls and dedicated mobile apps are the best because they don’t halt the momentum when you’re regulating the rumbles. In addition, they let your partner control the vibrations so you can enjoy hands-free sensations. And while they might come at an extra cost, they’re usually worth it to make the most of the couple’s vibrator. For models with an inbuilt control interface, ensure the buttons are easy to reach and responsive.
Range: Consider the control range if you want a remote-controlled couples vibrator. You want a vibrator that allows you to regulate the rumbles from across the room, if not from the adjacent room.
Noise: How loud can you forgive? Consider the noise level when shopping for a sex toy. Anything below 40dB is quiet. And while most models are higher than that, you can always use shower water, a duvet, or music to mask the noise.
Budget: The price depends on secondary factors like the design, features, and size. Luckily, the reviewed couples’ vibrators fall on different sides of the spectrum, and picking the one in your budget range will be easy.
I recommend our main couples sex toy review for more information about partner pleasure toys.
How To Use a Couples Vibrator?
The best way to use a couples vibrator varies from model to model, so ensure you read the manual.
Use a decent amount of water-based lube, take it slow with lots of foreplay, and explore different settings until you strike gold. In addition, start with using the sex toy by yourself before bringing it over during penetrative sex so you can guide your partner better on what works best for you.
You can read more on how to use a couple vibrator in this guide.
How To Clean a Couples Vibrator?
Once you’re done using the sex toy, clean it with warm water and antibacterial soap. Rinse well with clean water and dry it thoroughly – we recommend air drying, but you can use a lint-free cloth for a quicker drying time.
Read more on cleaning your sex toys here.
Where To Buy a Couples Vibrator?
Only buy clitoral and G-spot vibrators from official sex toy brand websites and authorized vendors. My top recommendations are:
- LELO
- We-Vibe
- Lovehoney
- Lovense
- Dame Products
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What Is the Best Vibrator for Couples?
LELO Tiani 2 is the best couple vibe. Everything from the adjustable body to the SenseMotion technology and grip-responsive remote control stands out.
What Is the Most Powerful Vibrator for Couples?
We-Vibe Chorus is the most powerful vibrator for couples, guaranteeing a powerful orgasm. Besides offering multiple vibration settings, the consistent power gain makes it the most impactful couples vibrator.
How Does a Couples Vibrator Work?
A couple’s vibrator works by inducing rumbly vibrations to the vagina and clitoris while leaving sufficient room for penetrative sex. Cock rings transfer the vibrations from the dick to the clitoris to please you and your partner simultaneously, while anal vibrators help create a filling experience for intense stimulation.
Are Couples Vibrators Safe?
Yes. Couples vibrators are safe. As long as the inner arm is well-measured to leave room for the penis or dildo, penetrative sex will be safe.
Note: Never try to have penetrative anal sex with a sex toy unless it has a flared base. The butthole is more delicate, and you might end up in the ER with a vibrator submerged inside your butt hole. Trust me! It’s unpleasant.
What Are The Best Positions For Couples Vibrators?
The best sex position for couples vibrators is the one that doesn’t push the sex toy out during penetrative sex. We found missionary and doggy style positions worked great, but anything porn star-inspired usually means the sex toy can’t remain inside. You can experiment with different positions and angles to see what works for you.
Primary Sources
1. Dare, D. Sex Guide For Couples: Improve Your Sex Life And Have Great Sex, Knowing What Men And Women Really Want. Explore Your Fantasies And Have More Intimacy For An Amazing Relationship. (2020).
2. Lehmiller, J. 4 Ways Men Say Couple’s Vibrators Improved Their Sex Lives. (2021, October 5).
3. How Sex Toys Impact Relationships. Psychology Today. (n.d.).
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Rachel
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